Let’s play a game called “I’m totally joking, but would do that in a heartbeat if you were into it”
Sometimes people treat me poorly and then get upset when I stop talking to them. You’re a really selfish person?? & You’re upset because I have a spine?? I’m proud of myself for the changes I’ve made. If you don’t like me standing up for myself/doing the right thing, then that’s your problem. You’re obviously not looking at things objectively if you treat someone badly and then blame them for any amount of distance.